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  • Someone asked:
    on June 12, 2023 9:22 pm
    How do you tell your boyfriend that you want to get engaged/married soon? My bf knows I want to get married, but as time goes on, I’m not seeing any signs of us getting engaged/married any time soon. I agreed to move in with him on the pretense that we WOULD be getting engaged soon. 7 months passed and nothing. I want more commitment. How do I have that conversation? Also, would you leave your bf if you don’t get engaged by a certain timeline you set out?
  • Someone asked:
    on June 5, 2023 3:14 am
    Hi Fumi! I have a question for you which I have been thinking about from past few months… What is the difference between feminine energy and masculine energy? If feminine energy traits are affiliated with nurturing, love, compassion, care and receptivity then if men do the same(for example: single dads), will they be considered to be in their feminine energy? And if masculine energy is characterised by doing and achieving and is molded by logic and reason.. then if women in workplace do the same, will they be considered to be in their masculine energy? I am very confused about this… ThankYou
  • Someone asked:
    on June 5, 2023 3:14 am
    Hi Fumi! I have a question for you which I have been thinking about from past few months… What is the difference between feminine energy and masculine energy? If feminine energy traits are affiliated with nurturing, love, compassion, care and receptivity then if men do the same(for example: single dads), will they be considered to be in their feminine energy? And if masculine energy is characterised by doing and achieving and is molded by logic and reason.. then if women in workplace do the same, will they be considered to be in their masculine energy? I am very confused about this… ThankYou
  • Someone asked:
    on May 31, 2023 8:22 pm
    I’ve been seeing this guy who has given me every green flag. No love bombing, very respectful, same values, great career, similar interests, checks in on me, has texted me good morning and good night ever since we met. He’s a man of faith who is only interested in sex within the boundaries of marriage, which is really important to me. We have only seen each other twice, as we both work in education—the last month since we’ve met has been very chaotic for both of us, and we live 45 minutes away from each other. Monday, Memorial Day, we spent the whole day together. It was so fun. So last night I asked him where he saw our relationship going. He responded “I don’t know, to be honest I haven’t really thought about it. What about you?” which hurt my feelings and seemed very avoidant. I told him that I’m only interested in serious relationships, and that I see that in the future with him. He responds “I am glad we are on the same page about this then :)” So. I asked him why he said he “didn’t know,” if he ~did~. He said that he really HADN’T consciously thought about it, but when I asked him, he DID think about it, and now agrees with me. I’m upset, I feel like he’s only given me green lights up until this moment and frankly, that statement feels like a lie. How do you tell a woman “good morning” and “good night” every single day and not ponder where the relationship is going? Did he just want me to answer first? I’m conflicted… because now he DOES say he sees a serious relationship in our future, which is what I want. And in every single thing he’s done aside from this strange interaction, he’s been so wonderful. But this has me confused. Thank you ❤️
  • Someone asked:
    on May 26, 2023 3:31 am
    I have two questions. How can I prepare of the Lstats? Two, I think you are brilliant and beautiful Nigerian Queen, will you grace me with a chance to get 15 minutes of your time?
  • Someone asked:
    on May 20, 2023 12:32 pm
    My bf has an asian fetish and i am South Indian but he treats me very well and complements me often saying I’m very beautiful and I’m his type because I’m lean and short. Is this a red flag? Is it right for me to expect guys to not look at other girls?
  • Someone asked:
    on May 19, 2023 2:01 pm
    Fumi, what does your spiritual journey look like? What would you advise others to do along their own journey? I’ve come to a point in my life where I feel like I need to prioritize spiritual growth, and I try to do that through journaling, meditation, and mindfulness of my health and education, but sometimes I wonder if there aren’t other things I could be doing
  • Someone asked:
    on May 18, 2023 10:05 am
    Hey Ma’am! I’m from India. Lots of love <3 Saw your posts and reels and it really helped me elevate my mindset. I just wanna ask about, there this guy who was my ex classmate, we never interacted before but somehow we ended up being online friends. At the beginning he shared some flirty and romantic posts, he showed interest but I wasn't reciprocating. Gradually we talked and I kinda caught feelings for him and now if he sents some flirty posts, I feel more attracted towards him but I don't want to. Cause i feel like he isn't interested, he just wants a girl who behaves like his gf and stays loyal to him but he doesn't want to comit to any relationship. Sometimes he gives a lot of attention Sometimes he just pulls back Its so frustrating 🙁 Ma'am please help me.
  • Someone asked:
    on May 17, 2023 11:15 am
    How can I get over the uneasy feeling I get whenever I come across the accounts of the girl he cheated on me with?
  • Someone asked:
    on May 17, 2023 8:16 am
    You’ve mentioned in your videos you haven’t had to go through bad relationships because you listen to others. How do you internalise the advice that people give you, and actually allow it to influence your actions?
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